This really hit me. I’ve been there too, with people coming in and out of my life for reasons I didn’t understand until much later. It’s like they were supposed to teach me something, but I couldn’t see it at the time.
attracting people who mirror your wounds really struck a chord. I spent so long wondering why I kept pulling in people who were emotionally distant. It wasn’t until I really looked at myself that I realized—it was me. I was pushing away the love I needed because I didn’t know how to love myself first.
Letting go of people, especially when you feel guilty, is hard. You question if you should try harder, be more forgiving. But sometimes, walking away isn’t about cutting someone off—it’s about protecting yourself from losing who you are in the process.
Those people who come into your life and leave you changed, as if everything before them was just getting you ready for that moment. It’s like the universe sends them when you’re on the brink of giving up.
I’ve always been the one to give and give, forgetting to take what I need. But I’m starting to realize that when you begin to give yourself the love you crave, the right people show up. They might not stay, but they’re there for a reason.
This really made me remember that every person who crosses my path is here to teach me something I need to learn. And even if it hurts, I know it’s part of the journey.
These three things that you commented really stood out to me:
1. "I spent so long wondering why I kept pulling in people who were emotionally distant. It wasn’t until I really looked at myself that I realized—it was me. I was pushing away the love I needed because I didn’t know how to love myself first."
2. "I’ve always been the one to give and give, forgetting to take what I need. But I’m starting to realize that when you begin to give yourself the love you crave, the right people show up."
3. "This really made me remember that every person who crosses my path is here to teach me something I need to learn. And even if it hurts, I know it’s part of the journey."
I have experienced the same! This is why now when I am looking at my life, I am realizing that everything is a mirror, and that mirror is to help us grow and become harmonic and balanced. As you said when you start to pour into yourself, especially with love, then you start to attract the same..why? because everything is a vibration. What love is more Whole than Self-love...for it is self-love that helps us attract those that compliment us, rather than "complete us". It is for us to become whole. All else is just codependency disguised as 'wholeness'. Thank you for your comment! It is beautiful! 🤩❤️🫶🏾
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This really hit me. I’ve been there too, with people coming in and out of my life for reasons I didn’t understand until much later. It’s like they were supposed to teach me something, but I couldn’t see it at the time.
attracting people who mirror your wounds really struck a chord. I spent so long wondering why I kept pulling in people who were emotionally distant. It wasn’t until I really looked at myself that I realized—it was me. I was pushing away the love I needed because I didn’t know how to love myself first.
Letting go of people, especially when you feel guilty, is hard. You question if you should try harder, be more forgiving. But sometimes, walking away isn’t about cutting someone off—it’s about protecting yourself from losing who you are in the process.
Those people who come into your life and leave you changed, as if everything before them was just getting you ready for that moment. It’s like the universe sends them when you’re on the brink of giving up.
I’ve always been the one to give and give, forgetting to take what I need. But I’m starting to realize that when you begin to give yourself the love you crave, the right people show up. They might not stay, but they’re there for a reason.
This really made me remember that every person who crosses my path is here to teach me something I need to learn. And even if it hurts, I know it’s part of the journey.
These three things that you commented really stood out to me:
1. "I spent so long wondering why I kept pulling in people who were emotionally distant. It wasn’t until I really looked at myself that I realized—it was me. I was pushing away the love I needed because I didn’t know how to love myself first."
2. "I’ve always been the one to give and give, forgetting to take what I need. But I’m starting to realize that when you begin to give yourself the love you crave, the right people show up."
3. "This really made me remember that every person who crosses my path is here to teach me something I need to learn. And even if it hurts, I know it’s part of the journey."
I have experienced the same! This is why now when I am looking at my life, I am realizing that everything is a mirror, and that mirror is to help us grow and become harmonic and balanced. As you said when you start to pour into yourself, especially with love, then you start to attract the same..why? because everything is a vibration. What love is more Whole than Self-love...for it is self-love that helps us attract those that compliment us, rather than "complete us". It is for us to become whole. All else is just codependency disguised as 'wholeness'. Thank you for your comment! It is beautiful! 🤩❤️🫶🏾