Sex, Power & Purpose: Women, You Are the Resurrector.
Men, Your Destiny Lies in the Woman You Choose.
There was a time when I thought my love could SAVE him. I thought because of our harmony, the way we built each other up, and the way he left my bed feeling energized and unstoppable, that we were on the same frequency. I didn’t realize at the time that just because someone is receiving from you doesn’t mean they’re rising with you.
His words confirmed what I already felt—our connection was different. Every time we had sex, he’d tell me how he felt recharged, like he could conquer the world. He was ready to take on his goals, ready to move forward, ready to create.
But I started noticing something else. While he walked away rejuvenated, I walked away drained.
And I knew exactly why.
At the time, I was one of several. He was sleeping with multiple women, but one in particular stood out. Their relationship was chaotic, toxic, and draining. They argued constantly. His life started spiraling. He went from being a free-spirited Sagittarius—full of adventure, luck, and fire—to someone lost in a dark path, experimenting with acid, slipping into psychosis, and eventually… in and out of mental hospitals.
It became painfully clear—the energy of the women he was with was shaping his reality. Sex isn’t just physical. It is an energetic exchange that shapes your destiny.
The Woman is the Resurrector, But Only If He Chooses to Rise
I think about what SiSTAR MyRAH teaches: The woman is the Resurrector, the man is the Redeemer.
A woman in her divine nature builds, amplifies, and restores a man to his highest potential.
A woman in her chaotic nature binds, drains, and deteriorates him.
I saw it in real time. He had two types of women around him:
Women like me, who energized him, sharpened his mind, and pushed him toward elevation.
Women who locked him into his lower self, his addictions, his chaos, and his destruction.
And yet… he spent most of his time with them.
That’s when I had to face a hard truth: A man will always gravitate to the energy he is truly aligned with—not the energy that simply feels good to him.
And that’s why he could never fully stay with me. He had to keep dipping in and out of my life, because my energy forced him to rise—and he wasn’t ready. He could only enter my space when his frequency elevated enough to match mine.
But ultimately, he belonged to the world he chose.
Why My Love Couldn’t Save Him
For a long time, my ego struggled with this.
Why couldn’t my love overpower the others?
Why didn’t he choose me, the one who elevated him?
Why did he keep choosing women who drained him, women who didn’t see his higher self?
And then I realized: It was never about force. It was about alignment.
A woman can offer resurrection, but a man must choose redemption.
And if a man is still comfortable in lower vibrational energy, no amount of love, power, or healing can pull him out.
A man has to decide to rise.
And when he doesn’t… that energy will consume him.
That’s exactly what happened. He went deeper and deeper into darkness until he was gone—before he even reached 25.
That’s when I understood that his choices were never a reflection of my power, but of his own nature.
Sex is Energy. Who You Lay With Shapes Your Destiny.
Reading The Magdalene Manuscript has been illuminating because it confirms something I’ve always known: Sex is not just physical. It is an exchange of energy, power, and spiritual alignment.
When you lay with someone, you absorb their frequency.
If you are a woman, you amplify whatever energy that man carries.
If you are a man, you take on the energy of every woman you lay with.
Some women restore and elevate. Others deplete and destroy. Some sex transforms and alchemizes. Other sex binds and drains.
And here’s the real kicker: If a man misuses his sexual energy, it will cost him his purpose.
This is exactly what Napoleon Hill wrote about in Think & Grow Rich—how most men waste their life force chasing sex instead of transmuting that energy into success. And they don’t wake up until it’s too late.
I’ve seen it. I’ve lived it.
And now, I’m sharing it.
The Lesson: Stop Trying to Save People Who Aren’t Choosing to Rise
This story is for the women who, like me, have poured their power into a man, only to watch him choose chaos over elevation. This is for the women who have tried to be the Resurrector for a man who wasn’t ready for redemption.
The truth is, you can’t save him.
You can offer him light, but if he’s committed to darkness, he will only dim you.
Your power is real. Your energy is sacred.
But you must learn to only pour into men who are capable of holding it.
Let them go.
If he is truly meant for you, he will rise on his own and meet you at your level.
If not… you already know where he belongs.
You are not here to convince, chase, or beg.
You are here to be a portal of transformation—but only for those who are ready to rise.
Closing Dedication:
This post is dedicated to him.
To the paths we crossed, the lessons we exchanged, and the love that was real in its time.
I am grateful for the way you taught me, without meaning to, how sacred my energy is. For showing me, through both your light and your struggles, what it means to be discerning with who I pour into.
You were adventurous, lighthearted, and full of fire—a soul who carried both beauty and chaos. You were gentle with me, and I honor that. I honor the way you loved me in your own way, and the way we shared moments that were raw, pure, and powerful.
And though your time here was short, your impact lives on in the wisdom you left behind.
May your spirit be free.
With a love we have shared across many lifetimes,
CancerMystique™